Originally Published by the National Urban League Young Professionals for the Mental Health Month 2020 Blog Series: I define self-love as a conscious decision to commit to personal worth, awareness, and happiness, without compromising ones’ well-being to take care of others. Essentially, M.O.E. (Me Over Everything). I know that may sound a little selfish,... Continue Reading →
“A flower cannot blossom without sunshine, and man cannot live without love.” - Max Muller I know I'm mad late, but I'm just coming down off my Valentines Day celebration and just wanted to share with you guys. #ThrowbackThursday Some people are completely anti-valentines day because they want to go against the social normity, commercial... Continue Reading →
12/18/18 Dear Future Husband, You know I've never really been one to just go and do things alone, but today I decided to dress up and take myself out on an impromptu date. Not that it's a big deal though. People grab a bite to eat alone or go to the movies alone all... Continue Reading →
Just wanted to remind you: Don't get overwhelmed with the day to day. If you have to take it one hour, one min, one second at a time, then so be it. Find the silver lining Vision boards are a great way to SEE what you want to accomplish Goals should be specific, measurable, achievable,... Continue Reading →
Note to self: you have to make time to take time for yourself. Otherwise you’re no good to anyone else. Make self-care a priority! Rest. Cook. Eat. Read. Exercise. Spend time with friends or family. Do whatever makes you happy. Whatever charges your batteries. It’s not selfish. It’s “giving the world the best of you... Continue Reading →
My life is a joke. Seriously though lol the things that happen like...its crazy. But we're here today cuz I got ghosted on....again... Ghosted (v.)- When you are talking to a potential significant other or person you're interested in getting to know better and all of a sudden they disappear and your phone calls, text messages, and DM's go unanswered with out an explanation, indefinitely.
I really think it's important to tell people how you see them. Good, bad, or indifferent. With tact of course. It can really be a catalyst to growth, self-awareness, and self love. I also think its important to ask for that.
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye." -Miss Piggy
Clearly I’ve been treating my self a lot lately (celebrating my birthday and what not) lol but I deserve it. Remember, It’s important to tell yourself “hey, you worked hard.. go head and take that vacation” or “buy those shoes” or “just relax and do nothing.” Work hard, play harder. Unapologetically. (and do it all... Continue Reading →
Loving someone who doesn't love you back is really an emotional roller coaster. But how can someone love you.....How can you love someone...if you don't know how to love...if you don't love yourself..if you don't know how to be loved? A lesson I am learning daily. Loving others. Loving my-self. As imperfect as I am. As God created me and loves me unconditionally...