Had you been here we coulda been out…
Introduction
I didn’t want to limit the blog to just being about my future husband. My vision is to use my past and present experiences, thoughts, and opinions to spark dialogue and encourage others as we all try to navigate life. And maybe inspire people to strive for greatness and dream big in all aspects of love, travel, work, and just life in general.
The Ugly Duckling
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye." -Miss Piggy
Black Panther
This movie is important because its not just us in another movie about slavery, or the life of a Black domestic worker, or livin' in the hood, or being ghetto, or being the "token." It's making a statement. Showing strength, pride, and the importance of culture from pretty much an all black cast. Showing we can be more than just "the sidekick"...
Dating and Situationships
"Situationship (n.)- A relationship that has no label on it.. like a friendship but more than a friendship but not quite a relationship....."
Melanin Magic
Do you realize the psychological effects of getting what you want based on your skin color vs. not getting special treatment based on your skin color?...
Dear Future Husband: Shawty Where You At?
Every time I meet a new man I'm wondering if it's you...
Silenced Dreams: Reflection of the Story of Emmett Till
Can you imagine having to hear that your 14 year son, nephew, brother, cousin, or friend was brutally killed basically because of the color of their skin?.....
Black History Month
“...seize the opportunity to honor the too-often neglected accomplishments of black Americans in every area of endeavor throughout our history." -President Gerald R. Ford
Dear Future Husband: I cut the grass AGAIN
Dear Future Husband: I cut the grass AGAIN...